A Snapshot of January

• New Year's Day listening to the rain and making plans for 2014
• Starting our Q&A A Day three year journal book
• Planning and enjoying a birthday surprise for M: Dinner at London Carriage Works, watching Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl accompanied by the full Royal Liverpool Philharmonic Orchestra (absolutely amazing!). Followed by ....

• Cocktails for two in Liverpool's city centre and...

• 3am visit to an old pizza haunt before crashing to sleep at Hope Street Hotel.

• Travelling for more birthday celebrations with M's family
• Wrapping up for a birthday walk around Yorkshire Sculpture Park

• Discovering Sherlock, and then realising that there are only THREE episodes per season
• Eating a fancy four course home cooked meal and generally agreeing to make more effort to cook for each other
• Cosying on the couch and watching films
• Saying goodbye to Christmas 2013

• A mammoth clearing and cleaning session downstairs and finally moving Christmas boxes from landing to loft on 11th January
• Walking around Albert Dock with a steamed milk with caramel, learning more about Liverpool's history at the Museum of Liverpool and going for dinner at Gusto at the Albert Dock
• Ordering and starting to use my yoga DVD
• Going through 2013's holiday snaps

• Making 2014's holiday plans
• Receiving our first supermarket home delivery (somewhat of an anti-climax with short sell by dates and mouldy red onions!)
• Dinner together with friends
• Booking a March weekend break to Centre Parcs with my sister in law and her husband

• An Indian Head massage 
• Heading out for just dessert (something I've always wanted to do!) at Las Iguanas in Liverpool One 
• New TV addiction: The Following
• A Scrabble and cake date at one of our favourite spots, The Moon and Pea on Lark Lane

• Hen do planning 
• After work hot chocolate catch ups
• A new MAC lipstick 
• Afternoon Tea with a rum punch twist at The Sapphire Lounge with my lovely mum

• Taking part in Florence Finds' #JanuaryJoy

Another Joyful January #JanuaryJoy

One thing that has made this January less joyful is our lack of internet connection at home. We've been on the phone to Sky more than I'd like this month and the issue is still not resolved. It's made working from home impossible and I've not easily been able to post here. So, while there appears to be at least some internet connection, I thought I'd share how I got on with the rest of the #JanuaryJoy prompts. 

 

#JanuaryJoy prompt 13: Go and see a film 

This month, we went to see two very different films: 12 Years A Slave and American Hustle. We also watched quite a few films at home. A pleasant surprise was Barney's Version - it had sat on our DVD shelf for months before we finally decided to watch it - just lovely!

 
14: Celebrate your family 

Family has always been one of the most important things to me and spending time with them is a priority. We are a family of four– me, Matiss and the two kittens, Lottie and Bruce! I look forward to when Matiss and I have children, if we are able to. I am also lucky to live less than fifteen minutes drive from my Mum and brother. The three of us have gone through a fair deal together and it’s made us very close. I'm very thankful for that.

15: Make a fitness target 

My goal for this year is to become more bendy, through yoga, and develop more upper body strength in the hope that, together, this will help to ease these persistent tension headaches.

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16: Try a new trend

I opted for a TV trend here – we decided to try The Following starring Kevin Bacon, which had been recommended to us by so many people. I can absolutely see why. GRIPPED.

17: Make some bread

I’ve not got round to this yet but I've earmarked a recipe and I am planning to make ciabatta for the first time this week to go with this Nigel Slater dish – roasted lamb fillets on ciabatta with olives.

Nigel Slater's roast lamb with olives and ciabatta

20: Plan to re-vamp your garden 

We have a small yard-en. I'm very fond of it but as there are usually so few opportunities to sit in glorious sunshine, it’s neglected except for the two/three months of British Summer. A couple of Summers back, we chipped all of the plaster off the walls but had to re-cover it when we realised what a mess the walls themselves were in. We didn’t feel confident getting a smooth finish so it’s ‘authentically’ bumpy. We painted it in a neutral colour and then added grey painted wooden frames for some potted climbers. We bought a beautiful  mosaic table and chair set and have lots of potted shrubs. We're trying to channel a Mediterranean feel. We can’t seem to keep the poor climbers alive, though.

21: Read something new

I'm going to start reading Caitlin Moran’s How to Be A Woman, which was recommended by a friend. I'm also looking forward to reading Ravens by George Dawes Green - a £1 bargain at a closing down sale at Waterstones!

22: Plan a trip 

We’ve planned a big trip for 2014, if we can save enough. I am already giddy with excitement at the possibility. More details soon!

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23: Plan your savings 

We’ve looked at one area where we spend unnecessarily: food shopping. We decided to start meal planning again and ordering the food shop online. We’re now two home deliveries down and it’s really stopped us from spending time and money in supermarkets at the end of each day.

24: Try making pasta

I've tried this in the past and failed miserably. This prompt was a good reminder to try (and try) again.

27: Tidy up (best to head over to Florence Finds for how to interpret this!)

I'm definitely guilty of favouring tights over razors during Winter...

28: Treat yourself 

This month I treated myself to: a pretty top from NEXT, a beautiful £2 necklace in Dorothy Perkins' sale (love a bargain!); an Indian head massage, a new book and some stationary in Waterstones' sale, several slices of carrot cake (at different times), a Dr Jart BB cream; and a spa voucher for my mum and I to enjoy in February. 

A Scrabble and cake date at The Moon and Pea, Lark Lane

29: Have a social media sort 

I really enjoyed reading the comments about social media on Florence Finds. I have a love/hate relationship with Facebook. I'm a lurker and enjoy the quick-fix knowledge that the people I love are happy and healthy or, in the other direction, that something has happened in their life, prompting a phone call. Like others, I use the message facility a lot, but news feed negativity and smug from people who I knew ten years ago gets annoying. In response to this prompt, I tried to cut down the number of people on my 'friends' list. I cut a whopping three people. The worry about repercussions was too much! I blocked a much bigger number from my news feed though.

30: Refocus on your career 

I really like this quote. I took some time to evaluate where I am now, and where I can aim to be. 

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31: Clear out

Earlier this month we spent a weekend filling binbags and making trips to charity shops and the tip. Needless to say, the house is back in a state again now.

Did you join in with #JanuaryJoy? What was your favourite prompt? I'd love to see what other people got up to!

#JanuaryJoy 2014 Week 1

Florence Finds blog is one of my regular reads and last year's January Joy made January just that bit more joyful! Rebecca's drawn up another great list of prompts for this January and I hope to join in with as many prompts as I can. We're three days in and I thought I'd share what I've been up to.

#JanuaryJoy Prompt 1: Make some resolutions

Here are mine for 2014:

1. Take up a new/ revisit an old hobby. I had hoped to do this last year but, although I did lots of general crafting, I didn't actually join or sign up for anything more formal.
2. Make more regular appearances at my hairdressers and try to thicken up this sad looking head of hair
3. Spend more time with friends
4. Worry less about what others think of me/ my work/ my lifestyle. A repeat from last year - it's a hard one to crack, and will probably appear on my resolutions list each year.

#JanuaryJoy Prompt 2: Get serious about your skin

This photo shows what happens when you leave Sanctuary facial oil on your dressing table in front of the window. Left hand bottle: sun bleached and nasty Right hand bottle: my new bottle of spa smelling loveliness which will be stored out of the sun's rays. My skin's got to be a little bit happy about this!

#JanuaryJoy Prompt 3: Plan a girl's night in

This ties in nicely with my 2014 resolutions. I'd love a cosy night in catching up with my favourite girls. Our schedules are all quite different but I'm really hoping we can get something pencilled in this month.

Sipping Glugging homemade mulled wine with my favourite girlies this Christmas

Are you joining in with #JanuaryJoy? I'm looking forward to getting involved in the rest of the #JanuaryJoy prompts and will try to keep the blog up to date with what I've been up to!

A Month of #JanuaryJoy

 

This month I have been taking part in Florence Finds' #JanuaryJoy. Each prompt is designed to encourage you to do all the little things you enjoy but rarely make time for. I've really enjoyed following the #JanuaryJoy prompts and they have made my January full and fun.

Here's my round up:

• 1 Resolutions were written here. A couple of days into 2013, but better late than never.
• 2 I not much of a 'boozer' but January's been busy and I'm don't think I've had a dry week/month. Oops.
• 3 We went for a Thai meal and cocktails for my husband's birthday. A mid week date night!
• 4 We were in Harrogate and walked around Valley Gardens on the 4th but we managed lots of other walks this month, too.

No#4 A January walk at Crosby Beach

• 7 I wrote about skincare here. I've since bought St. Ives facial scrub after reading peoples' raves.
• 8 It feels like new music is downloaded in our house almost every day. I deliberately braved it onto M's i-tunes and pleasantly surprised myself!
• 9 I didn't manage to do a new exercise but I have gone back to aqua run classes and still planning to get into yoga.
• 10 More travel planning for the Thailand-Singapore adventure here. 
• 11 LES MISERABLES! Me and my lovely mum had a girly day and went to the cinema to see Les Mis.
• 14 No manicure. In fact, my Shellac lifted today and I ended up peeling the rest off. Naughty. My poor nails haven't had a treat this month.
• 15 I wrote about a recently purchased travel book, "36 Hours: 125 Weekends in Europe", here.  

No#15 And books do, too

• 16 A little bit of budget planning here.
• 17 I didn't manage to get a hair cut or be brave enough to re-colour my hair, but I did write a hair related post here!
• 18 Though not the first time I've thought about it, I took time to write this post about family planning.
• 21 We made this vegetarian meal
• 22 I am crafting at least part of my #HeartSwap gift. I also posted about the teacup candle I made as a Christmas gift here.
• 23 Make memories. We went to Paris in October and earlier this month I'd used Photobox to create a Paris book. It joins the other holiday photobooks on our bookcase. 
• 24 Its not the prompt itself that was enjoyable for this one, but I felt a lot better once I'd taken time to have a clear out and organise my make up, t-shirt and underwear drawers.

No#24 A very organised make up drawer

• 25 Today we booked our flights for our Southeast Asia adventure. This definitely ticked the (planning to) go somewhere you have never been before.
• 28 I didn't get around to baking bread, but I did find some tasty recipes that I'll have to make time for in February.
• 29 Nothing like relaxing after work with a long bath and home spa.

No#29 All set up for my home spa

• 30 This was aqua running night so I decided not to undo all my calorie burning! I've made enough other naughty things to eat this month though, including this Bailey's creme brulee.

No#30 Homemade Baileys creme brulee

All that is left of #JanuaryJoy is today's, no#31: Reevaluate.

I think I got through most of the #JanuaryJoy prompts at some stage during January and my month was all the better for it. Highlights include our date night meal, my Les Mis cinema trip with my mum, and the travel planning conversation which resulted in flight bookings last weekend. 

#JanuaryJoy has also motivated me to become a bit more involved in the online blogging community, and I've really enjoyed writing posts and reading what other people have been getting up to. A great idea from Rebecca at Florence Finds, thank you! I'm really glad I got involved. In fact, February may be a little empty without it!   

Have you been taking part in #JanuaryJoy? What were your highlights, and what is in store for you this February?

Daily Bread #JanuaryJoy

#JanuaryJoy no.28: Bake some bread.

Until a couple of years ago I had only had one (failed) attempt at baking bread in a school home ec class. The recipe asked for a couple of tablespoons of water. I poured in the whole jug...

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How do you make good bread quickly? Well this website, Artisan Bread in Five, suggests making it in advance and then only needing to bake when you need it. Great time saver, but I think this misses the fun parts of knocking back and kneading. Rebecca at Florence Finds has also added a bread recipe which looks quick and simple. I think I'll have to give both a try.

I love flavoured breads, particularly rosemary based recipes. I've tried and tested Lorraine Pascale's Rosemary and Sea Salt Foccacia, with success every time. I have her book, but you can also get the recipe at BBC Food here. Really easy to follow, delicious, and there's nothing quite like the smell of rosemary through the house.

Our rosemary and sea salt foccacia, pre-oven

Bread bake to do list:

• I'm going to add this Rosemary and Olive Oil Bread from A Hint of Honey to my list of breads to bake. 
• For an American twist, I'm adding these soft pretzels from Life Made Simple to the list, too. YUM. 
• Slow cooker bread. A friend recommended a recipe, so I'll have to give this a go at some stage.

What are your tried and tested bread recipes? 

Crafting: Candles in Teacups #JanuaryJoy

Today's #JanuaryJoy is all about making time to craft. I love a good bit of crafting.

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My school friends used to get together for Craft Club every Thursday. It usually ended up with more wine drinking than cross stitching, but it was a weekly highlight. As our shift patterns and commitments changed, Craft Club sadly disbanded. I now craft alone (sob!) but find that it is a great way to de-stress. 

My current craft project is for my #HeartSwap partner (find out more about #HeartSwap at Skin & Blister's lovely blog here) so its all a bit hush hush, for now. Instead, I'll share one of my Christmas craft projects.

I decided to make my mum a teacup candle (Pinterest link) and discovered that:

• It makes for an inexpensive gift
• It is fairly easy to make
• It will be very well received!

There's lots of candle DIYs around online, but here's how I made my teacup candle:

My mum and dad had a full Eternal Beau crockery service and it was always the 'special' set that came out for special occasions or when we hosted people for dinner. Around a year ago, my mum made the decision to sell the crockery so that she could have a bit of an update, but it was my feeling that it was also a sad thing for her. I was having a charity shop browse in October and came across a cup and saucer in the very same Eternal Beau range. I decided to buy it and find out how to make it into a teacup candle that she could keep to remind her of me, and of my dad. My mum has assured me that the teacup is burning down in the very fashion a candle should. Good news!

I am definitely going to make some more teacup candles in the future, not least because I have the remainder of a 1kg bag of paraffin wax to use up! I think the next adventure in candle making will be to add fragrance.

Anyone else made their own candles? Any tips for adding a fragrance?

Baked Sweet Potatoes with Thai Curry Sauce #JanuaryJoy

Today's #JanuaryJoy: Try a new vegetarian dish

Tonight's meal: Baked Sweet Potatoes with Thai Curry Sauce

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When we go our for dinner, my menu choice is almost always the lamb dish. I love hearty meat dishes and walking into the house to the smell of a beef stew bubbling away in the slow cooker. When we host vegetarian friends, there's usually a moment of 'what on earth do we cook?' panic, before realising that actually, we don't do badly for eating no-meat meals in our house. Pesto pasta is a good 'there's nothing left in the fridge' meal; I make a mean veggie moussaka; and warm squash rocket salad is a quick fix light tea. The problem is, that is pretty much our repertoire. Not very extensive. Lets see if this quick and easy mid-week dinner gets added to our vegetarian meal list! 

My Feelings on Parenthood #JanuaryJoy

When I decided to do start writing a blog last Autumn it was to help me to celebrate all the little things that happen day to day in my life. It was also to be a space where I could reflect, in an honest voice, about the things that are important to me.

#JanuaryJoy no.18 calls for a little bit of family planning. Becoming a parent must be one of the biggest transitions you can make. This post is an honest reflection on my feelings about becoming a mum.

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I guess family planning can mean making plans for your existing family. The phrase 'family planning' takes me back to school personal education classes, the talk about the importance of birth control, and giggles and blushes with friends. Now that I'm in the later parts of my twenties, it's much more likely that I am being encouraged to start a family than to be told about the merits of contraception! Even more so since I became a Mrs. How things change!

I have often tried to imagine the future 'mum' version of me. Mainly, I see my own mum and the parenting style she used with me and my younger brother. I think that I was a very lucky child, growing up in a family with two amazing parents who loved me and did their very best to make me happy. Childhood photo albums and home videos are amongst my most treasured possessions. After my dad died, just over 11 years ago, my mum had to raise two pretty vulnerable children, who sometimes tested her nerves. My mum is wonderful and I have so much respect for the way she dealt with the stresses of parenting us on her own. My mum is a parenting role model to me, and I hope I can give my children the love and happiness I had growing up. 

I am so excited about what the future might hold for me and about the family I hope to have. I look forward to all the shared moments that I read about on other people's blogs; the photographs that melt your heart. I look forward to getting M to pose for images like this (stubble included):

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I am so, so excited for the adventure that is parenthood. But, today at least, I don't feel ready. I know. It's been said before, and I don't know what I need to do/have/be in order to feel ready. I just know that I don't feel it, yet. What is it that makes a person feel ready? For those who make the decision to have a child and become pregnant, what prompts the decision in the first place? One of my best friends recently gave birth to her beautiful little daughter (read all about the baby shower here) and although she is wonderfully honest about the difficulties she is having as she adjusts to parenthood, she looks so content. Her and her Mr decided to start a family and, happily, all went well for them.

If I'm honest, I feel quite anxious about the responsibility of becoming a parent. That sense that you shape your child with each thing that you do. I think you have to have quite a sacrificing spirit, too. This sums it up pretty well: 

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There are other reasons: I've not long finished my PhD. I finally have guilt free, no work weekends for the first time. I'm on my first full time salary ever in a career that really isn't very female/family friendly. As I've admitted, I not good at 'doing the budget'. I have a growing wanderlust now that I have a few more pennies. Do these things sound selfish?

Is there a way for us to know if we are ready to become a parent, or is it more of an instinctive feeling? How do you manage the situation if one person is ready, and the other not? I cannot hand on heart say that I am ready to be a parent at the moment. If it happens naturally then I will embrace it and no doubt enjoy every crazy second, but there are two of us that will need to make the decision to start a family. M has been settled in his career for a few years and I think that a family is more appealing to him than it is to me right now, but we both know that right now is not the right time for us. I believe that when we do make the decision to start our own family, we've both got to be ready for the sacrifices that it might bring as well as the amazing fun that I read about in other people's posts.

Have A Good Hair Day #JanuaryJoy

Good hair days are usually feel good days. I'm a restless sleeper and rarely/ never wake up with 'good' hair. I thought I'd share some of the things I rely on to give my hair a helping hand!

1. I've used the Aussie range of shampoos and conditioners on and off since I first started buying my own toiletries with pocket money. It used to seem like the biggest luxury expense. Of course, now I know its not such a luxury product, but I still love it. It always smells good, and leaves your hair clean and soft. Everything a shampoo should do, I guess.
2. I have a 1l backwash size Kérastase Reflection Bain Chroma Riche. It smells lovely and is perfect for highlighted hair. I do find it dries out my scalp a little so I alternate with the Aussie products.
3. Kérastase Nutritive Masquintense conditioning treatment is my miracle product. I leave it on for at least five minutes for super soft hair.
4. The Remington Pearl Curl Wand has a temperature control, is ceramic coated to protect you hair, and comes with a glove to protect your hand. It's really easy to use and lets you create either big waves or tight curls depending on how much hair you take, how long you hold and what part of the wand you wrap around.
5. Schwarzkopf OSiS Dust It powder which swells your hair cuticles at the roots, apparently, to create a backcombed volume which brushes out at the end of the night (or the next morning!)
6. If I'm blow drying my hair straight, I'll put a small amount of Kérastase Oleo Relax serum onto the ends of my hair after towel drying.
7. Kérastase Créme D'Huile Oleo Curl is lightweight, smells gorgeous and helps to define curls on wet or dry hair. Good for rejuventating curls on the second day.
8. Good old GhD straighteners for straightening or beach waving my hair.
9. Kevin Murphy 'Texture' comb. Big teeth. Perfect for getting rid of tangles.
10. A SCRUNCHIE. If all else fails, a trusty shiny neon, polka dots, or tartan scrunchie will always be there to hold your hair lovingly.

I'd love to know what other people do to tame their tresses. My hair's also got pretty thin over the past couple of years - any tips to get it thickening up again?

Thrifty Thinking #JanuaryJoy

Money. I'm more than happy to spend it but I don't really like talking about it. Today's #JanuaryJoy on Florence Finds blog is about finances/ budgets and so there's a lot of blog talk today, and at the start of 2013, about how people manage their household spends.  

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We are a household of three: Me, M and our awesome cat, Jacques. We have a joint account where all bills and household spends come out (and Jacques' pocket money, naturally), a joint savings account, and then we each have our own personal account. Our salaries go into our own bank accounts and then we each put a significant portion  into the joint account, leaving a little to spend or save ourselves each month. 



I've got to admit, I don't think I have or will ever be good at sitting down and 'doing the budget'. If there was ever a time to try this it was our wedding and, on reflection, I don't think we did very well at sticking to our wedding budget. It didn't matter, to be honest. We used a 12 months 0% interest credit card and paid it off as soon as we could, just as if we'd had the extra month or so to save for the wedding. That being said, I do want to try to be more mindful of where I am spending my money.

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When I look at my own account, I've noticed that I am a chronic fritter-er. £2 here, another £1.67 there. I also love a good bargain. The problem: My love for a good deal combined with my fritter-y habits mean that I often end up with unnecessary bags of Home Bargains' finest or voucher deals that I could happily go without. Worse still, I often forget about voucher deals that I have bought and then they expire. Not such a good deal after all!

Over the coming months I am going to try to make a conscious effort to cut down on the wasting of pennies. We just got an EngerySmart meter. I don't think this will help us cut down our bills dramatically, but I hope it will make us think about how we use power in the house. On top of this, I pledge to: 

1. Use Shoestring Splendour's finance spreadsheet to get a better general picture of where our money goes.

2. Be deal savy.

3. Make greater use of my Quidco account, which gives you cashback for online (and some in store, including Cineworld) shopping.

4. Take greater advantage of the free local music and gallery events.

5. Plan meals more often and take my own lunches to work . 

How do you plan to shake up your own finances? Have you got anything big to save for?  

    

Read a New Book: "36 Hours: 125 Weekends in Europe".

Today's #JanuaryJoy prompt from Florence Finds is to read a new book. I love reading. When I was writing my PhD I found that I felt guilty reading anything other than research articles and sadly only seemed to read when I was on holiday, as a treat.

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Over the last year, I've started reading more and was bought a Kindle as a birthday gift. Like others, I had been a bit resistant to e-readers. I used to love going to the local library, browsing the shelves and finally, going home with a book and wondering who else had read this copy, how they had experienced the book. Although I'd loaned library books less and less over the years (and feeling a tad responsible for local library closures), I still like the romance of a paperback book.

BUT, since getting my Kindle I've read so many books and, because it's so small, I tend to carry it everywhere I go. I now have lots of love for e-readers! I do try to buy my favourites in hard copy so that I can thumb through them whenever I want. I found a non-film cover, hardback copy of a favourite of mine, Angela's Ashes by Frank McCourt, in a little London bookshop. Bought and happily added to the bookcase.

I'm just into a book on my Kindle. I can't decide how I feel about it yet so, instead of a fiction, I want to write about a new coffee table book that's caught my attention.

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The New York Times 36 Hours: 125 Weekends in Europe.  

Edited by Barbara Ireland. Taschen.

This book was a birthday gift from me to M, and I'm pretty excited that it has been added to our bookcase!

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Start with a bright front cover, fill with beautiful images of dream destinations, and provide short, practical itineraries to make the most of places across Europe. Surely this is the recipe for a perfect travel book?

The book seems to be well researched and the content is organised so that you can go straight to the place you're set to visit, or just lose yourself in the photographs and illustrations. The book is colour coded and ordered by region (North Atlantic; South West; Central; South East; and Northern), and then separated by country. In the Northern section, you can get straight to planning your trips to Stockholm, Reykjavik, or areas of Russia, for example. In the South West, explore Paris, Tarragona, or Lisbon. 

Each article has a short information box, called 'The Basics'. Your day is then broken down into smaller sections and the schedule mixes the hotspots with the little gems and hideaways. Of course, once a 'little hideaway' is announced in a publication from The New York Times, you wonder how long it will stay as such. Regardless, this beautiful book definitely has you dreaming about your next few years of trips.

Books like this are great to have in the house, ready to open at any page, at any time. I was also lucky to get a copy of Young House Love's beautiful book for Christmas and I'm looking forward to soaking up the inspiration. 

What are you reading? Any non-fiction books you love and would recommend? 

 

Escape To The Movies #JanuaryJoy

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Today's #JanuaryJoy prompt is to go to the movies. Well, Les Mis is out today. Mum and I went to see the stage production when it was in Manchester a few years ago. I'm all booked to take my mum to the cinema tonight, and we will laugh and cry and sing. I hope the film adaptation lives up to expectations. I cannot wait!